Internal Family Systems
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Internal Family Systems is a recurring concept in the Astral Codex Ten archive, appearing 4 times across 4 issues between May 25, 2022 and May 28, 2024. The archive places it in contexts such as “Or what about Internal Family Systems? This is a kind of woo-y type of therapy”; “Internal Family Systems, somatic experiencing, some trauma therapies”; “Internal Family Systems, the hot new psychotherapy”. It most often appears alongside IFS, Bessel van der Kolk, Carl Jung.
Metadata
- Category: Concepts
- Mention count: 4
- Issue count: 4
- First seen: May 25, 2022
- Last seen: May 28, 2024
Appears In
- In Partial, Grudging Defense Of The Hearing Voices Movement
- Are Woo Non-Responders Defective?
- Book Review: The Others Within Us
- What Is Going On In IFS?
Related Pages
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- IFS (3 shared issues)
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- Bessel van der Kolk (2 shared issues)
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- Carl Jung (2 shared issues)
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- China (2 shared issues)
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- Falconer (2 shared issues)
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- Jaynes (2 shared issues)
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- Julian Jaynes (2 shared issues)
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- Sabby (2 shared issues)
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- The Others Within Us (2 shared issues)
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- 21st century scientific psychiatry (1 shared issues)
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- advanced meditators (1 shared issues)
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- Alexander Technique (1 shared issues)
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Source Context
Recovered passages from the original issue text. When the raw archive preserved outbound links inside the source passage, they are listed directly under the quote.
Or what about Internal Family Systems? This is a kind of woo-y type of therapy where the therapist says “imagine that your anger is talking to you, what does it say?” and then the patient tries to have this imaginary conversation. Sometimes their anger says something insightful like “I am just trying to protect you from being hurt again” and then the patient and their anger reconcile and the patient becomes less angry. I was never able to get the hang of this myself, but some people swear by it. Psychosis seems like a good starting point here - instead of saying “Imagine your anger could talk”, you can start with “You know that voice you hear all the time which keeps telling you to kill everyone? Let’s start by assuming it’s your anger”. I expect that some of the people for whom IFS works will find this works too.
(here “woo” means various more-or-less-alternative wellness and spirituality practices. Typical examples would be yoga, “bodywork”, tai chi, Alexander Technique, chakra meditation, Wim Hof, Internal Family Systems, somatic experiencing, some trauma therapies, etc.)
Internal Family Systems, the hot new1 psychotherapy, has a secret.
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First, this isn’t supposed to be just the therapist walking you through guided imagery, or you making up a story you tell yourself. The therapist asks you “Look inside until you find the part that’s sabotaging your relationship”, and you are supposed to discover - not invent, discover - that your unconscious gives it the form of a snake called Sabby. And you are supposed to hear as in a trance - again, not invent - Sabby telling you that she’s been protecting you from heartbreak since your last breakup. When you bargain with Sabby, it’s a two-way negotiation. You learn - not decide - whether or not Sabby agrees to any given bargain. According to Internal Family Systems (which descends from normal family systems, ie family therapy where the whole family is there at once and has to compromise with each other), all this stuff really is in your mind, waiting for an IFS therapist to discover it. When Carl Jung talked about interacting with the archetypes or whatever, he wasn’t being metaphorical. He literally meant “go into a trance that gives you a sort of waking lucid dream where you meet all this internal stuff”.
[An Internal Family Systems session] isn’t supposed to be just the therapist walking you through guided imagery, or you making up a story you tell yourself. The therapist asks you “Look inside until you find the part that’s sabotaging your relationship”, and you are supposed to discover - not invent, discover - that your unconscious gives it the form of a snake called Sabby. And you are supposed to hear as in a trance - again, not invent - Sabby telling you that she’s been protecting you from heartbreak since your last breakup. When you bargain with Sabby, it’s a two-way negotiation. You learn - not decide - whether or not Sabby agrees to any given bargain. According to Internal Family Systems (which descends from normal family systems, ie family therapy where the whole family is there at once and has to compromise with each other), all this stuff really is in your mind, waiting for an IFS therapist to discover it. When Carl Jung talked about interacting with the archetypes or whatever, he wasn’t being metaphorical. He literally meant “go into a trance that gives you a sort of waking lucid dream where you meet all this internal stuff”.
Backlinks
- Are Woo Non-Responders Defective?
- Bessel van der Kolk
- Book Review: The Others Within Us
- Books: T
- Carl Jung
- Concepts: I
- Concepts: S
- Falconer
- IFS
- In Partial, Grudging Defense Of The Hearing Voices Movement
- Jaynes
- People: B
- People: C
- People: F
- People: J
- Sabby
- The Others Within Us
- What Is Going On In IFS?